DEAR DEIDRE: I SUSPECTED my boyfriend was having a secret affair.
It turns out I was wrong about that. But he was keeping a secret from me – a six-year-old son by his ex.
We’ve been together for 18 months.
At first, it was great.
Then he turned moody on me and sometimes he wouldn’t see me or phone me for days at a time.
That really hurt.
I did some searching on Facebook and found pictures of him and his son.
He said he kept this from me, as he knows I’m not keen on kids.
But just how was he going to hide that from me for ever?
Perhaps if he’d told me he had a son at the start, I would have coped.
He’s 31 and I’m 27.
I love him so much but I can’t trust him now.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are right that he should have been honest with you from the start.
Do you love him enough to give him a second chance?
Can you cope with him having a child?
This little boy will be part of his life for a very long time and I hope an important part.
If you are not willing to share that with him, I doubt there is much chance for your love.
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